self management

Once my friend asked me to describe about ‘ self-management.

Not only to him but also to few, Here is small confusion how to understand self-management.

I replied him by telling my expertise event met once.

Once when I entered into petrol station , there one person who  had filled fuel for his bike and had given amount of Rs 200 for Rs 130. The petrol boy had given remaining amount of Rs 70 to him. He with so relaxation got amount and taken his purse from his back and put that amount and folded his purse. While happening of this lazy movement , I was on queue behind him and lot stood following me. But he with very casual approach he tried to put his purse on his back with lot of struggle as his back or purse was big.

In spite of that petrol boy showed humbly us to him, he was on remain to do same.

I , now , conveyed to my friend that self management might start from even petrol station. He laughed and told it should be needed for further understanding.

I affirm again that self-management is nothing but making everything towards universe from ourselves is perfect.

In other words, we make or manage ourselves by us only.

By waking in correct time to going bed in proper night governs self-management. Yes, the day – today, yesterday, and the tomorrow and everyday govern self – management.

Now you come to semi boiled statement that self-management is like a learning process what to do daily basis.

Between waking and lying on bed ,there is everything- Setting goal, beginning, execution , achieving by which we tune ourselves for us .

In simple words self management is easily understood by understanding basic things.

Now you can define self-management in my words that understanding basic things and executing all those things for ourselves by ourselves by which we should be perfect in every aspect.

We can improve self management more than checking it we are having it or not.

Have a passion more than a love on what you are doing. It may be your job or fun. It may be your cooking or dating. It may be your supper or playing.

When you have passion on your routine work , you are now mentally ready to do things differently.

By reason of doing things differently, we adapt for change and refreshing our thoughts .

self management is improved by setting goals. Unless we set goal, we don’t know things which are beyond our goal.

After setting goal, we not accomplish our mission. Because making the beginning is one third of the work. We should begin as early as possible by which our execution process is starting.

A proper beginning , executing, persuading towards achieving our goal ,all put together improve ourselves to manage ourselves.

Now let us begin to achieve everything with self management…..

ARTICLE BY

P.K.PALANIKUMAR .